Can you please do an ask Lindsey video on Monday?
Aaaaaa What does sexually active mean?
Well the basic idea is this: Have you had any sexual contact, usually within the 3 months. If you’re not sure what the person asking is asking then ask them.
Who do you have sex with? Myself and others.
How is Sexplanations different than Sex+?
This is my show. Is there something people do in their sex lives
that they think is good but you think is dysfunctional? Mm, sometimes our dysfunctions serve us. I’d like to see more people get help and less people suffer. How do I get my sex drive back?
How can I learn about my sexuality without experimenting?
Same way you learn about nutrition: reading, watching, asking questions, talking it over. Can you explain asexuality?
A as a prefix means without or the absence of and in this situation it is the absence of sexual
attraction. The person might call themselves an ace or aces and if they experience a crush that is
platonic it’s called a squish. Squish.
Demi-, Omni-, GreyA-, Pan-, all the other sexual orientations out there I’d like to give to another episode. There.
Does anyone else think speculums look like a duck? Yes, Eve Ensler.
What can I do if I’m allergic to latex?
There are lots of non-latex options out there. These are polyisoprene, some of my favorites.
How do I get started masturbating?
Ask your body how it wants to be sexed.
What is the how-to on vaginal hygiene?
Clean hands, warm water, wash on the outside, not on the inside. The vulva is want needs rinsing, not the vagina. The vagina is self-cleansing like the eyes.
What is the difference between an STI and an STD? STI stands for sexually transmitted infection. STD stands for sexually transmitted disease. In the medical field they don’t refer to
an infection as a disease unless there are symptoms. So, educators and the like are moving towards STIs so we can prevent infections and not just symptoms. Do I have to do anything differently with a condom if I have foreskin?
Hey! Danielle on Scotophobic does a great episode on this. Right there.
How can we know we’re being safe and doing it right?
Did you follow all the steps? If you did, then you’re doing the best you can. What do you masturbate to?
My sexy self!
What should I know about choosing a dildo? What it is made out of.
Can you talk about periods?
About this much blood creates an endometrium inside the uterus, kind of like a bloody
mattress where the egg-sperm combination called a blastocyst embeds itself–into the walls or the uterine lining. If the body gets word that it’s not pregnant, then the blood starts to contract and slough off,
coming out of the body called menstruation of or a period. What are the pros and cons of the birth
Some pros: It is 98% effective at preventing pregnancy,
regulates hormones and it can decrease acne, cramps, headaches mood swings, heavy menstruation. It’s also
reversible and works great with other forms of birth control. Some cons: It does not work well with antibiotics or nicotine, it’s easy to forget you, have to take it by pill, it’s only available by prescription, and it doesn’t prevent against sexually transmitted infections!
Where do I go to talk about my asexuality? AVEN: The Asexuality Visibility and Education Network. And you can find them at asexuality.org.
Does me liking girl porn mean I like girls?
Nope, it sure doesn’t.
Can though. What’s the best way to clean out sebum before it turns into smegma? Warm water. Can you eat smegma?
Unless you’re vegan?
How come when I finger myself it feels completely different than when my partner fingers me? The Forward Model.
Can you get pregnant from a hand-job or a blow-job? Pregnancy as a result of a sperm, usually protected by other contents of semen, meeting an egg or ovum. The blow-jobs and hand-jobs I’m familiar with do not involve the transportation of sperm to the vagina, vulva, or a petri dish.
Can you lose your virginity to a speculum? No.
What is BDSM?
It is an initialism that stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, submission, Sadism, and Masochism. It’s four letters, six words. What do you think about sapiosexuality?
As in attraction to smarts? Squish!
Can you think of ways to help somebody who’s struggling with their sexuality? I try to laugh more and include cool people in my investigations. There’s a lot to learn about sexuality. It’ll go on and on and on. Yeah?
You’ll have the same me Wednesday with more answers.