6 Things Your Cat is Saying to You

6 Things Your Cat is Saying to You


Talking about a little
miscommunication, I want to go over some real
basic cat body language that you probably
said, oh he means this. And it is completely
in left field. The first one,
Halloween cat, right? You’ve seen it before. Cat with arched back, tail up in
the air, and making themselves totally puffed up. And we interpret
that as aggression. In reality what it is, is
pretty much the opposite. It’s fear. The cat will blow
up, sort of tough, in order to make themselves
appear bigger, because they’re afraid of something
that just happened. The second one, the old, cat
laying on his or her back, right? Now, when you see your dog
lay on his or her back, you go in for the tummy rub. Those of you who have reached
in to rub your cat’s belly, you get bit or scratched. I call this the cat hug,
because what they’re doing is exposing the most
vulnerable part of themselves, their midline. If you are facing a
potential predator, this is that place that you
do not want exposed, right? When a human hugs
another human, we are exposing our midline
to that other person. It is a mutual show of
risk-taking and emotional trust. Cats do the same thing
by showing you that. That does not mean, come
on in for a belly rub. Now let’s talk about the
big one, the wagging tail. Folks are looking at their cat
through dog-colored glasses and are saying, this
means my cat is happy. As a matter of fact, they are
usually saying the opposite. Now, cats will start
to get worked up, start to get a little agitated
to static in the environment by absorbing that energy. It’s almost like it
comes in this way, and then it gets
stuck in the tail. And then, how am I suppose to
get this energy out of my body, you know? And then, it starts
getting worse, right? And then by the time
they are ready to pounce on you or anybody, or
explode with their staticky frustration, it is like this. We talked in the past
about the miscommunication that is inherent with cat
overstimulation aggression. So that is, you’re sitting
there petting the cat– pet, pet, pet, pet, pet. Suddenly, chomp. You get bit. The other one we talked about a
little bit was play aggression. Your ankles get
attacked, but why? Because your cat wants to
play and is not getting that play attention. We’ve even talked about how
your cat can pee on the couch, for instance. You’re like, why do you hate me? An insecure cat will
pee on something to mingle their scent
with yours, as if to say, you and me, buddy,
we’re compadres, right? So whether it is Halloween
cat, whether it is the cat hug –the belly rub that
we go in for, which we shouldn’t– whether it is
the play aggression attack, the overstimulation
aggression attack, whether it is the wagging tail,
these are all ways that we can take off the
dog-colored glasses, take off the
human-colored glasses. Look at your cat through
cat-colored glasses, their motivations, what
their reality is, and you’ll spend a lot less time
misconstruing, getting angry, projecting, doing
all those dangerous things that we tend to do more
with cats than dogs for sure, but pretty
much anybody else. So that’s it for today, folks. You can find me where you
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to go all over the map. All right folks,
until the next time we speak, all light, all
love, all mojo to you. Love you. THEME SONG: You’re a bad cat. I’m not a bad cat. You’re a bad cat. I’m not a bad cat. You’re a bad cat. I’m just misunderstood. Meow.

11 thoughts on “6 Things Your Cat is Saying to You

  • The Belly Rub: most cats do enjoy this as it is in relation to mother and baby, mothers will lick the babys belly to stimulate the stomach and intestines helping them to excreat, I seen the mother put them in a head lock with them screaming so that she can do her job.

  • WOW!!! Some great info on cat emotions there, i bet since this was made there is a lot more happier cat families out there…So many things that are misunderstood with cats…Amazing!

  • My cat bites my legs and arms, not hard, but enough to get my attention, right as I'm getting out of the shower. Anyone know why this is??

  • My cat used to throw himself on the ground and roll around on his back, WANTING his tummy rubbed. I also had a cat that followed me everywhere and played fetch like a dog, with toy mice! She'd do it for an hour.

  • i found a stray kitten and me and my friends took really good care of it and one day it showed me its belly while it was on my lap sleeping and i thought it was nothing and so i just ignore it and then soon after that it peed on me and after all that and all those days my dad took it to the shelter. and watching this video made my heart MELT!

  • Proud owner of 3 wonderful cats , all completely different in both appearances & personality! I’ve only joined & been a member for 3wks or so but have had cats most my life. I love your blog It’s not annoying & cutesy , you give good solid information that makes total sense. Don’t know how many times I took your advice, & it’s only been a couple of weeks! Also love that you use real kitty models in your examples, it helps to be able to see as well. Please keep up the great work! Your fans Penny Minnie Oliver & the baby, Sable ( is this making me a crazy cat lady ?!)

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